1. Do you ignore other people's behaviors even though you find them bothersome?

yes no not sure

2. Do you apologize for circumstances or situations that are not really your fault?

yes no not sure

3. Do you find that other people are often the cause of your problems?

yes no not sure

4. Do you find yourself thinking or saying, "He (or she) should know that it's not OK to say or do that to me."

yes no not sure

5. Have you been known to hit walls or throw objects when upset or in an argument?

yes no not sure

6. Has it been your experience or is it your current belief that there are a lot of rude, insensitive and selfish people in the world today?

yes no not sure

7. If someone upsets you, do you find yourself discussing that person's behavior and hit's effects on you before or instead of speaking with the offending person directly?

yes no not sure

8. If a friend has upset you, do you stop calling in hopes they will figure out you are upset at them, and/or that they will give up and leave the relationship?

yes no not sure

9. Do you yell when upset and find it hard to control yourself? It just seems to be who you are?

yes no not sure

10. Do you feel it is important that you win discussions and get your way in life?

yes no not sure

11. If you are bothered by someone's behavior, do you believe that if you tell them your feelings, they may be hurt and they won't like you in the future, or will hold a grudge?

yes no not sure

12. Do you believe that if you bring up an issue with someone and confront them that you will appear at fault? And that doing this will in some way spare their feelings and the relationship or their opinion of you?

yes no not sure

13. If a confrontation does come up, do you find yourself using language that is self-depricating and weak (e.g., maybe, kind of, sorta)language?

yes no not sure

14. Do you find that you throw out big words that others don't understand during nerve-wracking situations and that this allows you to feel superior to those around you?

yes no not sure

15. Have you been known to swear, curse and/or use sexist language during confrontations or discussions?

yes no not sure

16. As culturally appropriate, do you look people in the eyes when speaking to them?

yes no not sure

17. Do you sometimes point you finger at people when you speak to them, roll your eyes when they say something you disagree with, or do you act disinterested in what they are saying if it's not what you want to hear or deal with?

yes no not sure